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Easy tips for Tarot

Interpreting your tarot card spread can be daunting in the beginning. Especially if you’re an over-thinker like me. For a while I would only go to someone else for my reads in fear I wouldn’t do it right or something. One day my soul was pulling for me to take the plunge, buy my own deck, and it turns out it’s an easier option for divination in my opinion. Reversals, hidden meanings, self-doubt, and generally feelings of disconnection with your deck can hinder your experience. Follow me as I go through mistakes I’ve made and my tips to being more comfortable with your readings. Find the right deck Finding tarot cards have never been easier while choosing the right deck for you has never been tougher. My first deck was actually a self -care deck (Neo Tarot by Jericho Mandybur, a Very good deck btw) instead of a general one so no wonder why I felt like my responses were almost always off. Just when I was about to give up on tarot I purchased another deck (Classic Waite deck) and things started to take off! I prefer always buying my divination tools in person when possible but online does give a greater picture of what to buy. Tip: Take advantage of the reviews section to check for the quality of the deck. Are the cards super thick and uncomfortable to hold? Are they super thin and tear easily? Do they shuffle well or is there too much friction? Does it come with a booklet or interpretation guide? Did the manufacturer accidentally misprint cards or leave them out entirely? Take your time and don’t rush the process. Building a connection Hooray! You picked out a deck and brung it home. Now what? It’s time to bond with your new cards. After purchasing your deck and cleansing it, take some time to just be with the cards before actually using them. Let the deck soak up your energy. They will feel really foreign at first and in my experience, will produce “off ” readings. Tip: Watch tv, sleep with them under your pillow, ask the Universe or whomever you wish to help you to connect with the deck, or just look through and enjoy the artwork (all things I have done). It sounds crazy but trust me it makes a difference. Now I feel like my cards and I are one and can begin the fun. Stop second guessing I remember feeling really nervous after asking a question that the cards wouldn’t show me what I wanted to see. I would flip over a card and be disappointed. Doubt started creeping in that no one could hear me or at least wanted to help guide me. The biggest thing I had to come to terms with was to let go of control and the outcomes. I trust my Spirit Guides, Ancestors, etc, so there is no use in worrying. I suggest getting your energy in a calm and peaceful state before a reading. Now I can only speak for how I do things so of course do what’s best for you. Tip: Light a purple candle and maybe have some amethyst at hand as well. Cleanse your self, space and deck with whatever works for you. Ask your particular entities for guidance and protection. Close your eyes, breathe deeply and meditate for around 5 minutes or whenever you feel comfortable (gets easier the more you do it). When you feel confident, open your eyes and shuffle your deck with the question you have in mind. Decide if you are just doing upright or reversals too. Ask aloud your concern or ask for anything they want you to know to be revealed. Right before flipping a card over, say “Whatever card I pull, is what I’m meant to see”. Then flip and listen to your intuition. Read the booklet if needed as well for extra clarification but it’s still up to you to understand. This technique has done wonders for me over the years but sometimes the over thinker in me can’t resist herself. If you MUST overthink When the math just simply isn’t “math-ing” or want to see if my interpretation matches up with someone else’s, I have a few go-to resources for back-up. * These sources will give an automated general understanding and is not a live human interpretation so take it with a grain of pink salt. The first site I like is atarotcards.com if you’re working on large spreads. You can input up to 13 cards and choose upright or reversal. Now while they do have a premium version, I only use the free option and the results are limited but does the trick for me. For those doing a Celtic cross, powerfortunes.com can help you out there with their tarot calculator specifically for that. Simply scroll down and choose the card and click if it’s reversed or not and await a response. Now this site really breaks it all down card by card and how they relate to each other which I really appreciate. This method is free as well. The last free site I recommend is for 2,3, & 4 card spreads is tarotnauts.com. I’ve used them the most and the results are my favorite. It gives out keywords, general meaning, the meaning of the cards together and interprets the numbers as well. The only draw back is that they do not have a reversal feature but the 4 card spread is new so I see they’re updating the site often so maybe reversals are on the horizon. Not that bad huh? Tarot can be easy, fun and a resourceful divination tool with patience and consistency. Pull a single card once a week in the beginning to just get comfortable with the deck, and it’s fun to see what awaits in your upcoming week…sometimes. *I pulled the tower as my weekly card a few weeks back and was scared s#*tless so I tried to act

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How to Enjoy Bloomaroo

Welcome to my blog and my first post! So happy and grateful to have you here but I won’t get all sappy now, let’s hop straight into this post shall we? So this past weekend we traveled to the far away land of Washington D.C. to enjoy “Bloomaroo” at The Wharf. For those of you who may not know what Bloomaroo is, it’s a festival to celebrate the bloom of the cherry blossom trees surrounding the area. Just know that I was looking forward to this for weeks before-hand and was literally fantasizing of the great time we would have. The arrival of warm weather, dancing by the water to live music, great food options and some light-hearted shenanigans filled my heart. But little did we know the obstacles that awaited us. If someone would’ve warned me I definitely would’ve made better decisions that FOR SURE would’ve upgraded our experience. So here are my tips on how to enjoy (or survive) Bloomaroo! 1. If you want to drive…DON’T You guys don’t know me well yet but just know Lil’ Tuesdaé likes to have her own wheels, (an anxiety thing, I’ll fill you in later) but when I say driving will kill your day I am not exaggerating. We spent what would normally be a hour and a half drive from Baltimore County to D.C. 3 HOURS and some change in traffic. Left around 12:30 (which I thought was early for an event that begins at 4 p.m.) and arrived and finally parked at 3.45 or such. Just getting out of Baltimore took up about 2 hours of that but it looked like smooth sailing when we finally got into The Wharf. I admit maybe I should have prepared and anticipated the commute time much better. I recommend not just relying on Google Maps since it always changes and isn’t totally accurate to predict your time of arrival. If I can stress anything, if you have the financial ability just come down the night before and stay at a hotel or if not, leave before noon for sure. We will be for certain doing that next year! 2. There is NO PARKING!, kinda Now to the festival website’s credit it does tell you upfront that parking is extremely scarce so public transportation and ride share (uber, lyft, etc) are recommended. However, that doesn’t really become an option for those who live out of town is it? My philosophy, or delusion, was that we’d leave early enough to beat the flood of festival goers (LOL) to catch some street parking or the hotel parking straight along the wharf. There are 3 garages I believe with about a little under 1000 spaces collectively. Mind you around 1.5 million people show up every year for this festival, we’ll talk more about that in a minute. So obviously by time little ole me shows up these places are full. What I very much didn’t appreciate was when you drive to one garage entrance and you see it’s full, the attendant tells you to drive a little ways to the next garage because they have spaces. But when you go and fight through traffic, double parked cars and jay-walkers to arrive at said garage they give the same spiel. We did maybe an half hour of this before giving up, pulling our hair out and wasting gas going in circles to just choose the nearby L’Enfant Plaza parking for around $35. There are a crap ton of stairs btw. I highly suggest forgetting about hotel parking and go straight to the L’Enfant Plaza since the prices were the same anyway just a tad bit of a walk. 3. May as well pack a damn lunch I’m pretty sure you’re not supposed to but let me tell you, make those restaurant reservations well in advance (3 days prior at the least). Now us being women and never knowing what to eat is accurate 1000% but flubbed us royally when we got hungry. I think I was so stressed from driving that my appetite wouldn’t grow but we went to call around and see where we wanted to try out anyway. We actually started calling around right before we parked and all we got were “I’m sorry we currently aren’t taking anymore reservations” responses. Okay no big deal right? We’ll just walk in because for sure not everyone who makes a reservations keeps it or it’s no way they can turn away my adorable face right? “I’m so sorry but we just stopped taking walk-ins”. So now we’re wandering about in a sea of like fiftyhunnidleven people going from door to door seeking refuge. We see a spot where people are going in and aren’t looking frustrated or being turned away so we try there. I wish I got his name but there was a real cool man at the door of Whitlows who told us we can put our names down but it’s gonna be like an hour/hour and a half wait. We said “hey, it’s better than nothing.” So with our number and names down, we tried to explore a bit more of the festival. Yet I did wonder why they even took our names at all since the place was swamped but you’ll see. So we’re vibing, drinking our little pink drinks and watching the live music at one of the stages next to the “bloomed out” mini coopers (I have a thang for mini coopers btw,*sighs ) when my phone rings and it’s the host saying our table is ready. Mind you we have only been at the stages for maybe 25 minutes and just got our drinks that you inconveniently cannot take outside of that area. She only had a white wine and I a “pink vodka something overpriced” and chugged it afraid they would give our seats away if we took too long. The vodka wasn’t even the issue, it was the brain freeze from the ice but anyway…we arrive and

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